1 SHAMASH.ORG /usr/www/wwwhc/listserv/archives/scj-parenting March 2005 2 56 20_Message for Approval13_SCJP Approval25_scjp-approved@shamash.org30_Sun, 6 Mar 2005 01:11:07 -0500637_- Subject: Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah? From: "Adelle"





wrote in message news:1108376569.619096.237930@l41g2000cwc.googlegroups.com... >How common is it these days to invite parents, but not children (in our > case preschool age) to b'nai mitvahs? Our rabbi does not allow > children during services and I guess some people now exculde children > from the kiddush/reception too. It seems to me an odd practice. This > sort of thing is unheard of in my parents community and would > constitute on an aggregious social faux pas. [...] 59 49 65_SCJP ANNOUNCE: Prager: Judaism, Christianity Humanism: What's the13_SCJP Approval25_scjp-approved@shamash.org30_Mon, 7 Mar 2005 18:46:57 -0500660_- Subject: SCJP ANNOUNCE: Prager: Judaism, Christianity Humanism: What's the From: "RicHardRock"



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Sort of a related question: if you had food at the reception after that you didn't think would appeal to smaller children, would you attempt to offer other sorts of food, like a peanut butter and jelly bar off to the side? Or is your attitude, if they don't like herring and chopped liver (or spanakopita, or whatever is in your tradition), they should just tough it? 165 49 56_Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah?12_Cyndi Norman16_cyndi@tikvah.com31_Thu, 31 Mar 2005 07:37:00 -0800468_- Date: Wed, 30 Mar 2005 23:40:26 -0500 From: SCJP Approval

Sort of a related question: if you had food at the reception after that you didn't think would appeal to smaller children, would you attempt to offer other sorts of food, like a peanut butter and jelly bar off to the side? Or is your attitude, if they don't like herring and chopped liver (or spanakopita, or whatever is in your tradition), they should just tough it? [...] 215 56 56_Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah?13_SCJP Approval25_scjp-approved@shamash.org31_Thu, 31 Mar 2005 11:40:10 -0500577_- Subject: Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah? From: kgold@watson.ibm.com (kgold)



"Claire Petersky" writes: >=20 > Sort of a related question: if you had food at the reception after=20 > that you didn't think would appeal to smaller children, would you=20 > attempt to offer other sorts of food, like a peanut butter and jelly=20 > bar off to the side? Or is your attitude, if they don't like herring=20 > and chopped liver (or spanakopita, or whatever is in your tradition),=20 > they should just tough it? [...] 272 49 56_Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah?13_SCJP Approval25_scjp-approved@shamash.org31_Thu, 31 Mar 2005 20:31:18 -0500490_- Subject: Re: Parents only, not children invited to b'nai mitzvah? From: "fred"



>Sort of a related question: if you had food at the reception after >that youdidn't think would appeal to smaller children, would you >attempt to offer other sorts of food, like a peanut butter and >jelly bar off to the side? Oris your attitude, if they don't like >herring and chopped liver (orspanakopita, or whatever is in your >tradition), they should just tough it? [...]